This is the dilema of a young Christian lady who needs your comment and counsel. Please be sincere and honest in your judgement as it could go a long way help make serious decision...
Consider urself in this shoes and tell me ur opinion...u date a guy for about 4 years,he doesn't have any formal certification bcos he fell ill for a year in his penultimate class in uni n was expelled.he is born again(very spirit-filled).loving,caring,can never hurt u,attends to ur need s and never wants u to cry aldo he doesn't v a job buh has experience in his field,yet no capital to establish a private establishment since he doesn't v any certification to get a career job.he is also somewhat unexciting and doesn't seem to av appeal for outgoing activities e.g cinemas,eateries, beach etc. U meet this new exciting guy and u v watched his consistency @ getting to marry u for over a year.he is educated,funloving...highly romantic,outgoing,takes u to d cinema, karaoke,beach,buys u lunch buh appears in ur subconscious to be a cassanova.goes to church buh not as spirit inclined as d other unexciting guy.drinks like 2 bottles of beer in a week.he is sweet and also caring..works in a big establishment,comfortable and has all d potentials of a presentable n honourable elite in d society buh u smell traces of trouble in ur subconscious about him. CONSIDERING the fact that u came from a humble background,although,u aint freaked about money cos u have a well paying job too buh u crave for a financially secured future which he has unlike d other uneducated dude who can't pay ur bills,rather u spend for him buh assures u happiness in d future buh not financial security.who wud u rather marry.
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The tone of your writing sounds more like you know what to do, but lack the courage to make the right choice. That's all I can see here! So I implore you to tarry in the place of prayers and input spiritual stamina in order to take the right step.
ReplyDeleteSecondly, there is no assurance that any of them will remain in their present states in the nearest future. Change is the only constant. Bible speaks of riches as uncertain. More reason to seek God on this matter. I hope you this helps a little