Breast Flaunt!!!

I guess you must have heard the phrase “if you’ve got it, flaunt it” implying that if have got an asset worthy of praise then reveal it for all to see. On that note, it might be rewritten as “if you’ve got it, bare it”. This is the case in the fashion world where ladies have to bare (expose) significant parts of their body. Most significant are ladies with large upper case – breast (pardon my plainness), have to bare a significant amount of it for the world to see (“admire”). I presume it is a fashion rule as I hear and see on fashion programmes and make-overs that you must show some part of your body area that are assets while you hide/ cover up the uninteresting ones (cleavages, tummy, legs, back etc). The most irritating to me is the show of the bum line when ladies wear pants designed to reach half of their bum instead of the waist. The most accepted is the exposure of the cleavages which is done irrespective of the size of the breasts.
It seems the show has been taken to another level, one that becomes an open challenge to find out whose breasts are bigger. Some time ago, the challenge was between Cossy Ojiakor and Gloria Doyle as it became a regular gist among the Nigeria’s print media pages. Another challenger has just arrived on the block according to a publication in Saturday Sun newspaper –
Breast war
For years, Actress Cossy Ojiakor has been showing off her intimidating breasts, which she said are her “assets.” But it seems her reign is about ending. Now, she has a challenger in Sharon Promise Edobor| Read Story

My little way to resolve this is that they bear it all on a TV show and make all the men and women be the judge through sms and phone calls – not from little exposures and words of mouth.
I wonder what the war and all these exposures are supposed to achieve if not silly cheap popularity, a lure of sexual attraction, intimidation, fornication, undue pressure that could spark off from either end, evil reactions from rape to riot, and the likes. I believe all these are just shows of shame and insecurity in personal development and intelligence that looks for ways to patronise people (especially men) with their feminine endowments as a means to an end. Some ladies have told me their intention is far from this when they pick such clothes, they just pick the clothes for other reasons like texture, fitting, colour etc. They totally have no intention to expose. While, I might agree to that I have a problem with it because as important as those other reasons are to picking the clothing should the reason of exposure be considered. A reality every lady must know is that while you were not planning to have something “indecent” worn, the designer of the clothe had your figure in mind and how it will attract and lure any beholder to be energised towards you – for “good or bad”.
The breasts are natural gifts from God which is given for two major purposes which are for the benefit of the child - Psa22v9, and for the husband to enjoy - Pro5v19. They should be cherished, protected and preserved to meet these two major purposes and not to be flaunted for all to see. Every woman should carry and present herself as a cherished possession. One who was carefully packaged and endowed from God. The same way you do not treat a diamond pearl or a gold necklace or chain as common then the woman and all are cherished assets (including the breasts) should be cherished and reserved for the purpose it should serve.
I have not said that you should not dress smart, incoherent or uncoordinated but dress descent, smart, tact and attractive. Your dressing should attract people and command respect. An attraction that says you are thick, smart, priceless and purposeful not an attraction that says you are available at a cost, “you can have a piece of me” or try me o! Just be descent and comfortable too. I will like to end along the lines of scriptures below-
1Pe 3:3 Of whom let not be the adorning of garments, or outward braiding of hair and wearing of gold, or of putting on clothing,
1Pe 3:4 but let it be the hidden man of the heart, in that which is not corruptible, the meek and quiet spirit, which is of great price in the sight of God.
Col 3:17 And everything, whatever you do in word or deed, do all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God and the Father by Him.

Be good and pay attention more on the inner beauty which is a very costly price before God and be thankful to God as you do all you do (including your dressing up/down) in the name of God. Just before you step out while checking the mirror, do be sincere with your decency in dressing also.